Be quick in self-marking while asking «find me a girlfriend». I would like to mention here some obstruction which are acting like a stumbling block in you way. Ego, being the first drawback in this task, constitutes a rigid personality. Man sometimes acts more than a man. Though it’s not applicable on all men, many of them are bound by their nature. Lack of skillful communication plays a devastating role in you failure in finding a girlfriend. Diction, which means selection of words, is by large decisive in the fortunate process of finding a beauty. Then you’ll succeed in finding an everlasting beauty who would say to you;
«If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you.»
Emotional recklessness and hyperbole often spoil the whole game. Your Hollywood romantic touch will perish you, hey lover! Talking to girls, especially with a purpose to befriend them, many tomfools use erotic and frivolous tone. Your cry «find me a girlfriend» should not be incomprehensible. Nonsensically romanticized conversation results in failure. Humans like change, though not in every jiffy, and girls are included in humans.
Here you are not given a magic wand to make you able to find a girlfriend by just using few arresting one-liners. You have to be patient to understand the procedure. Just ask the hawk of your youth to fly out of your brain which is already suffering from melancholy. Here is a statement worth million. «Be attractive instead of being attracted.» It doesn’t mean girls don’t have attraction. You can take one hundred benefits from being pretending than being just naïve and adolescent. This, however, must never be justifiable for bamboozling.
«Overconfidence precedes carelessness. Overconfidence blurs out the risk. Inferiority magnifies it.»
What is confidence or self-confidence and what is over-confidence? It must be known that overconfidence is the best garbage that spoils whole of your white shirt. Self-confidence makes you sensible and prudent whereas over-confidence makes you dull, exacerbates your caliber and aggravates your way of talking.
«Over-confidence a is lack of confidence.»
Leave hot pursuit and be confident in your person. Don’t downgrade yourself before the beauties. So, the chattering voice like «find me a girlfriend» ought to be modified now. Your inner beauty will excel your outer blemishes. Beauty separates itself from love at a certain stage. Beauty vanishes at a particular age of your love. What remains forever is love. The success in getting a girlfriend depends more upon you than others, though others are not to be said scot-free. There must not be anything untried and left on your part.